Hmmmm, my post has been edited.....Looks as though good old nanny Google has amended it...Oh, well, too bad I can't remember what I wrote.....Hopefully the idiot I was writing about has already seen that part!
Moving on......
I have been having some issues with my ex boyfriend. I am sure many women can relate to these issues. Problem is I really liked, no loved him at one point in time.
This person is one of the most annoying people I have ever known in my life, and I usually get along with most people. Anyway, here are the some of my reasons to back off this guy for good because leopards don't change their spots!
How can a woman settle down and be a good wife and then a mother if you have all this bullshit to contend with? Many of the guys today are just NOT serious, if you ask me. A lot of them spend their time hanging around with these groupies and loose women and can't get their head around the fact that all people are not the same. Read the whole thing to understand what I'm trying to say.
When we were together, I was always the one who was encouraging and pushing, pushing and encouraging, why don't you do this, why don't you try this. *sigh* What I really need is a REAL man who knows how to be a man, not somebody I have to be giving ideas, somebody who is sensible should already know what they want to do and how they want to do it, instead of waiting on a woman to come and shape and mould them. I am supposed to be a girlfriend, well in this case, ex, not your damn mother!
Reasons to stay away from this person
Arrogant - Thinks too much of himself and is extremely egotistical, boastful, narcissistic, big headed, high and mighty and even walks in a swaggering way, like he owns the damn place.
Suffers from small man syndrome or short man syndrome - No offence to short people, besides I'm not exactly a giant myself. Anyway, this guy portrays all the symptoms of this syndrome such as showing off, attention seeking, telling lies and stretching the truth. Also appears to like women to chase him and tell him how great he is *rolls eyes*.....This guy is really annoying and likes to brag a lot and is full of himself. Even when spoken to about his cocky attitude he still likes to justify and argue over this. How can you justify being arrogant all the time? See arrogant.
A liar - Well, tells lies and especially likes to make up things about people. I can't stand people that can't be frank about things or tell the truth for that matter. If you are in the wrong, just admit it and stop telling lies about what really happened. Just be real dammit.
Pretentious - Likes to portray himself as a nice person to people, despite his lies as well as cunning and conniving ways. When I first met him, he was so nice and lovely, didn't realise I was getting myself into a big mess. Also, likes to present himself in a particular way, when he knows good and damn well that he is usually the opposite. For example, likes to dictate to people that they should not drink but he can drink 6 pints of Guinness in less than two minutes, but likes to tell everybody else how to live their life. Sometimes you have to practice what you preach.....Reminds me of one of those fake pastors who want to grab money and have affairs with the whole congregation while preaching the 'word'.
Another thing, he will say that a girl is skanky etc the next thing you see him hanging around with the same girl and being best friends with her. Likes to portray himself as the moral high ground when in fact he himself has very low morals. Will complain about women wearing hot pants and bikini top, but will then chat up a girl wearing hot pants and a bikini top. Man, make up your mind because you are all over the place!
Kind of hypocritical and two-faced wouldn't you say?
Anyway, I'm not saying he can't be nice at all, but he is pretentious majority of the time and finds it hard to be real with people. So, conniving...
Extremely quiet - Very calculating and conniving type of guy, just like a snake. I should nickname him King Cobra. Well, he speaks with a forked tongue as well, so that nickname suits him well....LOL
Cryptic - Likes to talk in riddles and enjoys for people to try to unravel or conquer him. This is not a damn war for goodness sake. See self-centred.
Money motivated - This is probably the only thing that motivates him, oh, as well as fighting, of course. The whole time we were going out, this guy was always broke, broke, broke and yet more lies, always telling lies about everything. The problem is I am not a materialistic person, so I thought we would make it work regardless of how broke he was. Many times you can consider a person, but will they consider you?
Immature - Does not act like an adult, can be very child-like and childish. Always complaining about how he helps out everyone but nobody cares about him, which is yet another lie. Told me he had no family in the country, another lie to get some sympathy votes from me. He really only cares about himself. Reminds me of a spoilt mummy's boy. What an attention seeker.
Disrespectful - See annoying
He tries to justify his wrong-doing by telling lies on people. Seems to enjoy getting on people's nerves, especially mine.
Indecisive - Likes to jump from one woman to the next and doesn't know what he really wants in life, well relationship wise anyway. Likes to be seen around all the nice looking girls of all races and faces, no doubt this gives him a huge ego boost....Idiot! I think there are some low self-esteem issues going on there.
Unfaithful - Does not know how to stick to one woman, this also computes to being greedy, wants to have his cake and eat it too. Likes to mislead people, likes to cheat and has very little integrity. Thinks he is being cheated on and has trust issues, when in actual fact he is the one that likes to cheat and be unfaithful. Again, this has something to do with low self-esteem issues. See pretentious and indecisive.
Irresponsible - See immature. Does not like to face up to his responsibilities and be a man. Where have all the REAL men gone. Oh, and being a real man has nothing to do with being able to fight or obsessing over fighting or sparring by the way. *yawn*. I'm talking about the whole package.
Two-faced - Likes to talk about people behind their back and tell lies, and twist stories to suit him even, no especially, when he is completely at fault.
Self-centred - see arrogant. Likes to feel appreciated but never likes to appreciate. Sometimes, you have to give to be able to receive. Has an insatiable appetite to be famous, obviously so he can boast about it as usual. *yawn, yawn, yawn* See arrogant.
Cowardly - When it's time to face up to his responsibilities he usually hides, especially when he is in the wrong. Will switch off his phone for days or just won't answer it. Likes to ignore people. This type of behaviour is cowardly to me, when there is something to discuss, just get it over and done with instead of hiding like a mouse. What a fool.
Annoying - Ignores people and generally does annoying things to get on people's nerves, e.g. switching his phone off, hiding when there are problems to be solved etc. See cowardly
Mean - Does mean things like ignoring people. He does this often. Tells lies about people, thinking they won't find out. Always wants the girl to pay for everything, a bit of a cheapskate.
Wicked - He knows exactly what this means, so I will not elaborate on it, but when he reads it he will know exactly what I mean by saying this as I am sure he snoops around my blog, although he will deny it to the last breath....LOL
Irresponsible - See immature. Does not like to take care of his responsibilities.
Callous - Has no feelings for other people and doesn't care who he hurts as long as he is fine and OK. This again boils down to self-esteem issues. It's always me, me me. If he talks for 5 minutes, it's usually about himself, and how great he is. Otherwise, if he is quiet for long periods, he is being calculating and conniving. Sometimes, you can know a person too well.
Aggressive - Likes to fight and always wants to fight everybody. When we would get on the tube, he was always wanting to start something with somebody or claimed that people were trying to start trouble with him. Every time I would have to calm him down. Always talking about martial arts, martial arts, martial arts, or MMA, MMA, MMA, cage fighting, cage fighting, cage fighting......so bloody boring. Yes, I like martial arts as well, but we don't have to eat, drink and sleep it. Can we talk about something else please? Nothing much has changed since we were together, in terms of his character. See small man syndrome....LOL
Well, I have enjoyed writing this and it has been a massive RELEASE for me, if I can think of anything else, I will surely add it later on.
I am writing this post as a reminder to myself the many reasons why the relationship ended as well as the fact that I find him extremely annoying. Also, writing this stuff down helps me to move on to a better relationship. I meet so many nice people and I haven't given anyone a chance because I still had feelings for this loser. I need to get my head right, so this helps. Besides, what is the point of feeling low about somebody who does not care about you? Well, there isn't any is there?
This is my way of getting over it because goodness knows that I need to get over this FOOL!